Grief demands we honor our losses while moving forward—like emigrants who held cotton threads until they snapped. Here's what healthy grieving actually requires.
This weekend I reluctantly read Belle Burden’s book “Strangers” for my book club. Next to Joan Didion, it was one of the more powerful expressions of grief I have read. It reflects so many of the points you raise Rob. Throughout the memoir she acknowledges the broad range of emotions, trying to process her new normal. Such a powerful voice, and deeply honest about the messy process of grief. It is so important to internalize what you have written and how authors are describing this part of the human experience because none of us are immune, no one will escape the experience.
You are right. No one is immune, and we all have to go through some form of grief sooner or later and deal with a feeling, a state that can never be again. Memories form our support system.
This weekend I reluctantly read Belle Burden’s book “Strangers” for my book club. Next to Joan Didion, it was one of the more powerful expressions of grief I have read. It reflects so many of the points you raise Rob. Throughout the memoir she acknowledges the broad range of emotions, trying to process her new normal. Such a powerful voice, and deeply honest about the messy process of grief. It is so important to internalize what you have written and how authors are describing this part of the human experience because none of us are immune, no one will escape the experience.
You are right. No one is immune, and we all have to go through some form of grief sooner or later and deal with a feeling, a state that can never be again. Memories form our support system.
Turning ghosts into ancestors
Thank you. Yes, you make a good point